The poor in the Budapest Hilton

Somewhat belatedly I will spend some time today on a singularly distasteful event that took place on December 22, the fourth Sunday of Advent.

Advent is now celebrated widely in Hungary. When I was growing up I never heard of it. The first time I encountered an Advent wreath with four candles was in Canada in the home of a German-Hungarian Lutheran family. But then one never heard of Santa Claus or Halloween in those days either. Life has changed a lot since.

In any case, the Hungarian Reformed Church Charity (Református Szeretetszolgálat) came up with a “fantastic” idea. They collected forty kids ranging in age from six to eighteen who live in poverty and organized a luxury dinner for them in the Budapest Hilton Hotel. The chief sponsor of the event was Zoltán Balog, minister of human resources and himself a Hungarian Reformed minister. The reaction to the event was eerie silence on the right and loud condemnation on the left.

One thing is sure. It was a singularly disgusting affair that included a close to incomprehensible and offensive speech by Balog. Naturally, MTI simply reported the bare news, but it seems that even Magyar Nemzet thought that perhaps mentioning the name of the hotel was too much and only announced that the dinner took place “in a Budapest hotel.” Magyar Hírlap ignored the event altogether, and therefore readers of this far-right paper learned about it only yesterday when an MSZP politician condemned the Hilton gathering in connection with the general poverty of the population. She called the invitation of forty poor children to the Hilton Hotel a sign of “government cynicism.” Fidesz’s website also failed to mention the lavish dinner.

Origo was the first to express the disgust journalists who were invited to witness the event felt. Here are forty poor children who most likely have never been inside any hotel, and here is the five-star Hilton’s unimaginable luxury. The children looked not just ill-at-ease but outright sad and perplexed. One child was quite honest and said that he really didn’t want to attend but “my mom told me that I must.” It turned out that his “mom” isn’t his own. His father is an alcoholic and the mother is mentally ill. He was referring to his foster mother whom he likes very much. As for the food, he loves pizza, hamburger, and gyros. Another one, after seeing the menu, announced that he doesn’t like mushrooms and can hardly wait for the dessert. A twelve-year-old girl announced that her favorite is “túros tészta,” a Hungarian dish made out of egg noodles, sour cream, cottage cheese, and bacon. But, she added, she will manage to get the dinner down somehow.

The enthusiasm is overwhelming

The enthusiasm is overwhelming

The menu was not exactly kid-friendly. The first course was goose consommé served with vegetables and rottini. Then came chicken breast with a mushroom sauce prepared with Calvados, an expensive French cognac made out of apple cider. A bottle here costs between $50 and $80. In addition there was vegetable lasagna, broccoli, and rice. The dessert was yogurt strawberry cake. But for a while they were unable to taste these “delicacies” because first they had to listen to the Reverend Balog’s elevating speech about darkness, disorderliness, light, and order. A fascinating story followed about his own church’s explanation of what Advent is all about. Then came the story of a darkened room in which all sorts of obstacles were set up by the adults but as one candle after the other was lighted, the children instinctively began to put things in their proper place. Order was restored.

So what is the lesson one learns from this elevating story? Right now there are poor people in Hungary, the cause of which is “disorder.” But one day this will change and perhaps these children when they have a job or “perhaps even go to college, who knows” will be able to afford to eat in a restaurant like this. Or perhaps they will be able to visit Paris or Cluj/Kolozsvár. Why Cluj? I guess he realized that Paris is too western and one must pay attention to those territories lost in 1920. They will be able to go wherever they want to. All this was told in a way that demonstrated Balog’s total inability to talk to children in a non-condescending way. The best was when he turned to a child who looked about six and asked him how many corners a room has. Do these people really think that these children are not just poor but also imbeciles?

At the end each child received a box of gifts, but the wonderful organizers of the Hungarian Reformed Charity didn’t even bother to personalize the parcels. The labels simply said: “For a 6-8-year-old girl,” “For a 8-12-year-old boy,” etc.

Yes, the parcels. The organizers decided to call them “the Misi Nyilas packets.” And now we must turn to Hungarian literature. One of the great Hungarian prose writers of the twentieth century was Zsigmond Móricz (1879-1942). In 1920 he published one of his early novels, Be Faithful unto Death /Légy jó mindhalálig), whose young hero is Misi/Mihály Nyilas, a very poor boarding student at the famous Debrecen Reformed College. Clearly Misi is Móricz himself, who studied there between 1891 and 1893. He was one of seven children of a family who fell on hard times. They were poverty stricken. His tuition was paid by his maternal uncle, a Reformed minister.

A large portion of the second chapter in the novel is about the incredible excitement that a package from home caused in Misi’s life. He was told that he cannot expect to get care packages because the family can barely scrape by. But comes the day when he is told that there is a package for him at the post office. For all sorts of reasons Misi can’t open his parcel immediately, and in his absence his fellow boarders eat all the food in the package, including, as it turned out, some cream his mother sent him to put on his chapped hands and shine his shoes with during the winter. One can only wonder why these good Calvinists decided to name their Christmas boxes “Misi Nyilas packets.” Most likely they didn’t even read Móricz’s book. After all, Misi got nothing out of the package.

Few politicians said anything about the whole sordid affair, but the few who did didn’t hide their feelings. One MSZP politician sent Balog and his whole gang straight to hell. Actually it was a bit stronger. Today Ildikó Lendvai (MSZP) came out with an op/ed piece entitled “Cinderellas in the Hilton.” Lendvai admits that “Cinderella” was not one of her favorite tales when she was little. She simply couldn’t understand how a fairy who is also a godmother could allow Cinderella to be treated so badly by her stepmother and stepsisters. How could she think that sending her a fancy dress and a glass slipper could make up for all that suffering? Lendvai was certain that if the prince didn’t show up, the poor girl most likely would have had to return to her earlier miserable existence. Princes don’t show up very often.

Something like that happened to the forty little Cinderellas the other day who don’t even have names, faces, characters, talents. Each is simply called “a poor child.” As for naming the boxes these children received, perhaps it wasn’t a mistake because earlier this government took away benefits children had previous received automatically. Just this year parliament voted on 1,700 bills but not one had anything to do with feeding the 200,000 children who are malnourished. Instead they busied themselves with employing school policemen, lowering the age of compulsory education, making sure that even fourteen-year-olds can end up in jail for minor misdemeanors. Elsewhere Balog told 300 Roma children in state custody that “the government works hard to better the lives of children.” Ildikó Lendvai very much hopes that during the holidays the government will take a little rest.

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Guest

My wife also got very angry when I just told her this story – she hadn’t heard of it before – and used some very unladylike words for the responsible politician(s) …

Of course it would have been sensible to maybe give those children something that lasts …

Unbelievable!

PS: What was in those parcels ? Maybe a picture of Orbán ? A copy of the constitution – including the amendments ?

Jano
Guest

This is unbelievably disgusting. This is the perfect manifestation of the religious stuck up hypocrisy of this government. I am pretty sure that for the longest time, these people at the ministry were blown away by their magnificent idea, when they are going to be so good to some children while it will be such a glamorous manifestation of the goodness of the Orbán government.

Obviously, reality is not an obstacle for these guys. This is how far these people are detached from what really is going on, and there is every reason to assume that this is the same with the economy and other policies. I’m unbelievably outraged.

spectator
Guest

This is sick, very sick.
As their mind.
And some call them “True Christian”..!
And some call this “Charity”!

I just lost my appetite.

oneill
Guest

Sometimes when you see the Fidesz media lapdogs in operation you think, despite yourself, “yep slick operation”.

This however was just pure filth which served no purpose whatsoever even for our governing shameless fascists.

For the crime of attempring to exploit these innocent kids, may Balog and the rest of Orban’s sanctimonious Fidesz hypocritcial scum rot in hell.

J Grant
Guest

It was the second time the Reformatus Egyhaz (Reformed Church, aka Calvinists) came to my attention today. On the link below those of you that can read Hungarian will see what happens in Hungarian Calvinist Church circles. Their legal adviser had tried three times to have the Calvinist pastor in the church in Szabadsag Ter defrocked, based on his racism and extreme right wing views and failed. Today he got to the end of his tether and resigned. He found the cowardice and spinelessness of the church elders intolerable. Just in case you forgot, this is the pastor who had installed and celebrated a brand new bust of Admiral Horthy on the front steps of his church.
http://index.hu/belfold/2013/12/28/lemondott_mert_a_reformatus_egyhazban_felnek_a_kurucinfotol/

Szogedi
Guest

300bn HUF to churches (guess which ones?) from EU funds. Smart and planning for the longer term, building the national network and the community.

http://444.hu/2013/12/28/300-milliard-forintot-ad-a-kormany-az-egyhazaknak-unio-penzbol/

petofi
Guest

Like most politicians with low-rental minds or mediocrity, these Fidesz boys learn from others: this ‘gesture’ brings to mind Hitlers patting of children; or Saddam with the son of a British embassy employee…”Disgusting” barely scratches the surface of revulsion.

tappanch
Guest

Worker criticized the flat tax – he was fired for it immediately.

http://nol.hu/belfold/kirugtak__mert_nyilatkoztam_az_egykulcsos_adorol

petofi
Guest

correction:

Not ‘or mediocrity’ but ‘OF mediocrity’– (spellcheck sabotage)

Guest

I had known about this, thinking it quite horrible. But it wasn’t until I saw a picture of the kids at the Hilton, cowering on the banquette, that the absolute nastiness came home.

tappanch
Guest

Telephone poll by Fidesz’s “Szazadveg” firm, taken between December 16 and 19, sample size= 1000

Fidesz 31%
Jobbik 8%
Democratic opposition (5 parties) 27%
uncertain: 33%

http://hvg.hu/itthon/20131228_Szazadveg_elhuzott_a_Fidesz_erosodott_a_J

tappanch
Guest

Mr Abe’s Japanese government also pushes for government mandated history textbooks with more nationalism and ww2 revisionism.

http://www.nytimes.com/2013/12/29/world/asia/japan-fights-a-political-battle-using-history-texts.html

RICH PR PR
Guest

We have to match our PR to the Finkelstein tactics of constant deceit.

We have to be surgical.

We have to show tender loving care for every decent Hungarian, and selectively bring the obscene acts of the orbans to the surface.

Eva must borrow some skills from a friendly Finkelstein, like George Lakoff to win this PR war.

Agreed?

Penny Oswalt
Guest

“Feed the poor, the widows, and orphans and I will restore you!!!”

Andrew Endrey
Guest

Tappanch: Japan is a vibrant, functioning democracy with a pluralist society. All nations seek to control their official historical narrative, including democracies. Authoritarian states have a greater need to do so to ensure their legitimacy and they have the means to silence subaltern voices. This is not the case in Japan, and the article cited makes that clear. Schools in Japan can choose to use a vast range of historical texts that provide a more objective assessment of Japan’s recent history, as you would expect in a society that upholds freedom of the press. Japan’s rising nationalist rhetoric is in response to the real external threat of an increasingly menacing China. Hungary has no such external threat, its perceptions notwithstanding. Many Japanese still adhere to post-war pacifist principles and are uncomfortable with the recent shift in their government’s policies. Japanese place a high value on consensus but this does not mean quiescence. There are many more differences than similarities in comparing Japan to Hungary.

Regards,

petofi
Guest

@ Andrew E.

“All nations seek to control their official historical narrative, including democracies.”

Huh?
Best I know, historical texts in Canada are written by history teachers with government not exerting any pressure on the narrative. I would be shocked if it was otherwise.

But I do agree with the rest of your submission…

petofi
Guest

correction: I should’ve written: “…written by historians and history teachers…” (as opposed to government flunkies as in Hungary.

Andrew Endrey
Guest

Petofi: Yes, that’s fair comment and I agree that the point was not well put. What I meant was that even democracies strive to project a certain national image which can include an attempt to exert influence on the historical narrative: I was thinking of Australia, which I know best, in the 1990s and then Prime Minister Howard’s beneficial reading of Australia’s history of European settlement to counter, in his view, negative ‘black armband’ histories of the period written by ‘professional purveyors of guilt’ (Howard’s words). Of course, in democracies such as Australia, Canada, and Japan, professional historians can ignore such rhetoric with impunity (which is your point) but it can play well to the government’s advantage among its constituency (which, in Australia’s case, is not well-versed in its own history, as witnessed by the steady decline in the teaching of Australian history in its universities in recent years).

Thanks for the feedback.

Cheers,

Andrew

petofi
Guest

On government control of national narrative: There is, though, one particular instance where I think the Canadian government has controlled the national narrative and that would be the treatment of Canadian citizens of Japanese origin during the 2nd World War. It’s not clear to me how people’s businesses and homes could be confiscated without compensation after the war (hence the idea of government control of the subject post-war).

But I’m really not well versed on the topic…

enuff
Guest

the news of this Hilton “field trip” got to us via an attendee weeks before the event.
At that moment, I wasn’t outraged , just thought is this the best way to spend the money? why not do something more meaningful?

With this I wish to attach an inspirational post by an American in Budapest when visiting an orphanage http://anamericaninbudapest.com/?p=5060

petofi
Guest

In many corners and hovels of Hungary the inhabitants are raucously laughing at what fools Orban can make of bureaucrats and politicians, in their frantic and sycophantic efforts to please, and therefore maintain their frontal position at the feeding trough!

Member

It would be nice if pater Balog and his holy crew would actually read the Bible. Matthew 6:1-4 for instance.

http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=matthew%206:1-4

Paul
Guest

I absolutely do not understand the apathetic approach towards the anti-Orban petition which I sense over here.
http://act.watchdog.net/petitions/2675?r=2199255.b4l4ER
I mean….don’t complain…do something useful.

Bowen
Guest

Whatever their political affiliations, the people in that video are exactly the sort of people who should not be allowed anywhere near vulnerable kids.

Paul
Guest

Bowen,

Hear, hear!

Guest

Paul :
I absolutely do not understand the apathetic approach towards the anti-Orban petition which I sense over here.
http://act.watchdog.net/petitions/2675?r=2199255.b4l4ER
I mean….don’t complain…do something useful.

I agree with you that we should try to do something useful, and I think that writing comments aimed at the supposedly small audience of Fidesz operators who read HS may be useful. It should be made clear to them that they are involved in criminal activities and they may get punished. That insight they will get neither from Fiedsz nor from the present opposition.

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Guest

Kadar may have been a better Christian than pater Balog who wants to restore the horthy era christian window dressing.

BUENDIA BEE
Guest

This story is seriously bizarre. Tells us a lot about the “elites” and their view on poverty. Thanks for that piece.

Guest

Paul :
I absolutely do not understand the apathetic approach towards the anti-Orban petition which I sense over here.
http://act.watchdog.net/petitions/2675?r=2199255.b4l4ER
I mean….don’t complain…do something useful.

I have submitted an answer to your cry of agony yesterday but it disappeared in moderation. If it wasn’t accidentally dropped on the floor it must have disturbed somebody. The latter possibility has enticed me to try again. Here is what I wrote:

“I agree with you that we should try to do something useful, and I think that writing comments aimed at the supposedly small audience of Fidesz operators who read HS may be useful. It should be made clear to them that they are involved in criminal activities and they may get punished. That insight they will get neither from Fiedsz nor from the present opposition.”

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